Strap on dildo is quite intimidating. When I see this type of toy in a movie or a video, I automatically think it is inconvenient and it is difficult to use. However, a friend of mine has experienced using this toy and she is quite pleased by it. I would like to share her tips and tricks on using strap on dildo to all of you.

TIPS AND TRICKS ON USING STRAP ON DILDO

1. It is applicable for both homosexual and heterosexual couple

homosexual vs. heterosexual logo

Debunking the myth that only homosexual couples could benefit from these toys, my friend believe that more and more heterosexual couples are experiencing with this product. Strapon sex is, hands down, a new experience that requires a whole different level of trust and comfort between the couple. Some heterosexual male could still enjoy the same prostate stimulation while the female could enjoy the feeling of empowerment while experiencing with this toy.

2. Do not feel weird about it

a couple talking

At the beginning, using a strap on might feels weird, simply from the look at it. However, just like every other toy in the market, once you get used to it, there is no turning back. Remember, it is just another toy that helps you to reach a whole new level of pleasure and adventure.

3. Find the right size

strap on dildo in different sizes

The best part of using strap on dildo, or dildos in general, is that we have plenty of sizes to choose from. For the beginners, of course it is wise to start small. Over the time you can slowly increase the size of the dildo as your partner/ you feel more comfortable. Don’t forget to incorporate lube if you are experimenting with anal sex for the first time.

4. Talk about your fantasies and have fun!

a couple laughing

When we use sex toys, we are often fulfilling our deepest, kinkiest sex fantasy. Don’t be shy about it. Discuss different scenarios and fantasies with your partner, and just have fun! This will take the pressure off and will help you play more enjoyably in bed.

5. Different types of strap on dildo

strapless strap on

Unlike what most people have in mind, strap on dildo is no longer constraint to one style where the dildo is attached permanently to an underwear.

Nowadays, most strap on dildos are removable and we even encounter the newest trend: the strapless strap on. However, this new product isn’t suitable for the beginner because it would require the user to attach the dildo to their vagina. While a lot of Kegel exercises are required, this toy allows more comfortable skin to skin contact and can be used both vaginally and anally.