There are different tips and tricks, positions and concoctions that we can find about optimizing male orgasm. Often time, we got so caught up in the complications that the sex itself becomes more like a chore instead of being fun. I would like to present several fail-proof, simple advice that could improve the quality of your sex life, as well as your partner’s orgasm.

1. FOREPLAY IS IMPORTANT

Couple Kissing Foreplay

We often downplay the importance of having a proper foreplay session. A proper foreplay could enhance the overall intercourse experience. It is like having a long period of teasing each other before jumping into actions.

2. EXPERIENCE WITH THE FIVE SENSES

Feather Massage

Get to know what your partner likes to feel more aroused. Combine different ways of pleasuring your partner to make sure he could experience joy in all the different senses. Obviously, looking yummy and sexy would arouse him more than looking unkempt, but smelling clean and fresh also could trigger him to want to sniff and kiss you all over. Running your finger and lips around his erogenous areas and whispering things that he likes to hear would drive him crazy. You can even go as far as experiencing with ice and other thing that he could lick off of your body.

3. TALK DIRTY TO ME

Finger Lip Bite

The key to talking dirty is in the tone of voice. Make sure you deliver your sexy messages in a deep, sultry voices instead of funny, squeaky ones. Having what a called a “horny face” would also help arouse your man like never before.

4. ROLE PLAY

Girl with Costumes

Being creative and fulfilling each other’s fantasy is the best part of sex! What is your biggest fantasy and how could your partner fulfill it? Discuss this with your partner and experiment.

5. MALE ORGASM FROM PROSTATE STIMULATION

Sexy Couple Massage

This might be a less conservative method to bring about your partner’s male orgasm. I emphasize the word ‘male’ because only men could experience this prostate stimulation. Prostate stimulation can be done manually by massaging the rectum either externally or internally. At the beginning, external massages would probably feel more comfortable. However, only internal massages could bring about your man’s real orgasm face.

For those who are experienced with prostate stimulation, there are also some toys that they can use to make this process more enjoyable and convenient.

6. EXPERIENCE WITH TOYS

Pink Fluffy Handcuffs

As mentioned in the previous part, both you and your partner could experience with toys to bring your sex life to a whole different level. Some men enjoy playing with their partners and watch them squirm with joy as they reach orgasm before getting into action. Others also like to use some toys during intercourse to heighten the senses of both people in the process.

CONCLUSION

I believe when people are researching and googling, how to have an orgasm isn’t really the issue. Instead, how to have a mind-blowing, out of this earth orgasm, is the goal. I hope these tips could help you and your partner reach the best orgasm and improve your overall sex life.