Rimming is a new trend that appears to be popular among both males and females. This topic got some of my friends cringing and some others laughing. It seems to be taboo as a dinner table topic, more than the talk of sex toys.  So, what is rimming?

 

WHAT IS RIMMING

 

 

Before I did my research, I hadn’t been familiar with the term “rimming”. I have heard about anal licking, eating ass (as Nicki Minaj and Jhene Aiko referred), and other terms, mostly from rap songs. But guys, turns out it is all the same.

 

Rimming was originally the action of licking the ring around the anus to pleasure your partner. However, it seems that these days, there has been a little addition to the definition. While licking alone might be sufficient, plenty of people also suck, kiss and penetrate the anus with their tongue. Basically any activities that stimulate the starfish area with your mouth could be considered rimming.

 

WHO IS IT FOR?

 

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Many men are reluctant to try rimming due to the assumption that only LGBT couples enjoy such action. However, there is no limitation as to whom such action could be performed to. I know both males and females that enjoy giving and receiving oral stimulation from their partners.

 

HOW TO PERFORM THE RIMJOB

 

First and foremost, make sure that your anal area is 100% clean. 

 

Many people choose to short, bath and during this time, using their finger to make sure that the back hole is clean and ready to play. If you want to be even cleaner, you could do an enema, where you use a certain tool to put some water into your rectum area and get a deep cleanse to get rid of everything that’s left. Whatever it takes, as long as you feel clean and confident to have your partner performing the rim job for you.

 

Explore more than just the rim

 

When people started to get into rimming or analingus, the original activity was to play with your tongue around the rim (the outer part) of the anus. However nowadays, most people enjoy extra pleasure by not only licking, but also sucking, and penetrating it with the tongue.

 

Add extra flavor

 

If you would like to spice up the experience of giving an anal job aka anilingus to your partner, you could work with some flavored lubes of your choice. This way, you could also slowly proceed to other anal activities that might require lubrication (such as anal penetration by either your penis or a toy)

 

Getting to the next level

 

Often time, performing anal rimming for your partner isn’t the end game. Some people do get a huge amount of pleasure from it; however, most people would continue with other more intense anal-stimulating activities. You could either play with the B hole using sex toys or vibrating sex toys, or go for full on anal sex. For most couples, a vibrating bluetooth vibrator could be the best option for the pleasure of the person who is penetrated and the one who control them.

 

So…

 

Have you guys tried rimming? What are some tips that you follow to make this experience even more mind-blowing? Let me know in the comment section below!